Oral History: I’m a 40-year-old female single mother of three children
"I felt as though I had only one choice at this point and it was to end my third pregnancy."
"I felt as though I had only one choice at this point and it was to end my third pregnancy."
"It's still really difficult, especially seeing so many people be pro-life, because I just couldn't imagine if I had to bear that child."
"I don't understand how at my age it can be somebody else's decision what is right for me and my family."
"I'm so grateful that I had access to that at a point where I was not ready to start a family."
"It bothers me when people who are opposed to abortion glibly dismiss elective abortion as selfish and for convenience."
"I only wish I’d given myself permission to seek out the proven treatment for my painful periods 12 years ago."
"Because of arbitrary legal limitations, we had to rush into the most difficult and painful decision of our lives and act immediately."
"I was so humiliated to have my husband come to my pre-op appointment just to sign a permission slip for me to longer be able to become pregnant."
"Swallowing the MAP allowed me to finish my education, and swallowing a metaphorical pill forced me to live my life openly and honestly."
"I did the same thing I'd have done if I mistakenly cut myself or burned myself… I went to the doctor and got care."