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Pleasure Practices

Practicing pleasure as a means of emotional survival.

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Pleasure Practices with Sami Schalk: Apple sitting

A leisurely fall trip to the orchard, plus a pie recipe.

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Pleasure Practices with Sami Schalk: Embrace your inner child

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Pleasure Practices with Sami Schalk: Glamping

The pleasure of safe and comfortable time outdoors with loved ones.

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Pleasure Practices with Sami Schalk: Celebrating with intent

"If you bristle at the idea of celebrating yourself or others, take some time to think about why that is."

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Pleasure Practices with Sami Schalk: Grow something good, then eat it

How to start a pleasure practice herb garden.

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Pleasure Practices with Sami Schalk: Learn something new!

Books, TikToks, and vodka sauce.

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Pleasure Practices with Sami Schalk: Spread the love

Giving more kinds of love in more kinds of ways.

Pleasure Practices with Sami Schalk: Back to basics

Continue the practice of pleasure with a bacon bourbon BBQ sandwich.